Keep it specific
Try: “I am willing to talk about this, but I will pause the conversation if we start insulting each other.” A boundary describes your actions; it cannot guarantee another person will change.
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SUPPORT / ROOM FOR WHAT YOU FEEL
A boundary you can put into words.
Start with what you need and what you will do to look after it.
Choose something you can follow through on
You might mute notifications for a set time, end a conversation, or ask to revisit a topic later. Choose an action that fits your circumstances and feels safe.
Notice what happens next
You can reconsider a boundary or ask for help. If someone threatens or intimidates you, or makes you afraid to say no, explore relationship-safety support instead of trying to manage it through a joint conversation.
You choose what comes next.
These are optional reflection prompts, not instructions to confront someone or make a decision before you are ready. If taking space or discussing a boundary could put you at risk, visit our relationship-safety resources.
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